People like to have nice things, such as valuable clothes, sparkling jewelry, prized cars or an overall quality appearance.If one is frugal or clever, quality, designer or seemingly expensive items can be found at outlets or other stores for half of the price. There are others, however, who do shop around for deals, but if given the right circumstances and opportunities, certainly won’t deny themselves the chance to have the real or expensive thing. Such spending habits on items aren’t always wise and have the air of being flighty or impulsive. But it feels so good to have expensive, designer or personalized property.

There is some sort of satisfaction acquired when one buys an expensive or popular item, be it clothes, jewelry or a fragrance, for example. At least these are some of the top feminine items that are most valued. But what would be so terrible about buying off-brand or generic types of these girlish frivolities? Well, nothing is wrong with taking that action, but the mind makes one believe what they want and forms their own opinions about their desires regarding material objects. If a woman settles in her mind that designer and expensive means quality and if it gives her satisfaction to own such possessions that few can afford, then she most likely won’t be content with anything less than what she believes she deserves. And going the other way just isn’t the same because it doesn’t bring the same kind of satisfaction or gratification.

To be selective or indulgent is to be above the rest. Though this is neither a healthy viewpoint, nor a frugal one, it is still one of the most common human traits.

Having expensive and seemingly quality items in one’s drawer or closet can give happiness. It might be temporary happiness but it still has the power to boost confidence and self-esteem, fleeting as that material satisfaction can be. There is something dangerous, exciting and pleasurable about indulgence. Indulging on material possessions is no different.

Many people take pride in what they own, and others can’t really judge them for that. Some people believe health and happiness are most important in life, while others are convinced that riches, success and material possessions can give fulfillment and pleasure. Both sides have merit and give valid points, because there is no one answer to this universal query.

America itself is learning the meaning of prudence and frugality, but consumerism still has a strong hold on the nation. We like to have and own nice things, and there is nothing wrong with that. Money itself might not bring happiness, but it can buy things that could. For example, a person can buy a pet and that pet can give a person happiness and joy, though it was bought with money. There are so many opinions about money and material possessions and many disagreements, as well.

If a person has the means and the money, then she can do with it what she wishes and deal with her own consequences for her actions.

Ylona Cupryjak is a sophomore theatre major from Keller. Her column appears Tuesdays.